Five proven steps to turn strangers into friends – from saying yes to small invites to joining curated events. Make your new city feel like home, faster.
Moving to a new city can feel like an adventure… until you realise you don’t know anyone. Whether you’re here for work, studies, or just a fresh start, building a social life from scratch can be challenging. But it’s absolutely possible – and here’s how to make it happen.
You don’t need to wait for a big party. Accept the coffee invite from a colleague or join your neighbour for a walk. Small, casual meetups are where trust and connection begin.
Random meetups can be hit or miss. Platforms like City Mates make it easier by curating events that are safe, welcoming, and interest-based – from rooftop dinners to Sunday hikes.
Don’t just attend – invite others. Host a small event, even if it’s just a picnic or game night. People appreciate someone who takes the initiative, and you’ll quickly become part of the social fabric.
One meeting isn’t enough to build a friendship. Aim to see the same people at least three times – whether through events, hobbies, or casual get-togethers – to turn an acquaintance into a friend.
The real magic happens with consistency. Even if you’re tired or busy, showing up for social moments builds momentum and deepens relationships.
💬 Final thought: Friendship doesn’t just happen – it’s built. Take one small step this week, and your new city will start to feel like home faster than you think.
👉 Find curated events near you with City Mates – and start building your circle today.
