Just moved? These 5 powerful tips will help you make real connections in your new city – without swiping or awkward small talk.
New in town? You’re not alone.
Whether you moved for work, studies, or just a fresh start – the hardest part usually isn’t finding an apartment.
It’s finding real friends.
Forget endless swiping and small talk. These 5 unusual but effective tips will help you build meaningful connections – faster than you’d think.
Don’t wait to get invited – you’ll wait forever. Instead, show up alone to events designed to connect people – like curated community meetups on City Mates. Conversations start naturally. And guess what? Most others are also looking to meet new people.
Try improv, indoor climbing, or a vegan cooking class. When everyone is doing something new, it breaks the ice fast. You don’t need skills – just curiosity. That’s often the best way to bond.
Tell people you’re new. Ask them where to get the best coffee, haircut, or view. Locals love to share their city – and just like that, you’ve got your first coffee date.
Every City Mates event comes with a group chat. Use it! Ask a fun question before the event, or follow up after with something like: “That was fun – anyone down for [insert idea] next week?” You’ll be surprised how many say yes.
You don’t need to be a party planner. Host a casual walk, pub quiz, or bring-your-own-wine night. City Mates makes it simple – and people will thank you for bringing them together.
Making friends in a new city isn’t about luck – it’s about showing up.
And with City Mates, you’ve got the perfect wingman to help you do just that.
👉 Try it now: www.citymates.app
